Divorce can be one of the most stressful events in a person’s life. Therefore, it is critical to choose an attorney who is a good fit for you. After all, you may have to live with that decision for a long time.
First, you need to sit down and have a face to face conversation with any prospective attorney. You should share your concerns and listen to how the attorney responds.
Does the attorney listen or do they interrupt a lot? An attorney should be interested in you and the facts of your individual situation. Divorce is a personal process. If the attorney is not going to be interested in you as a person, why should you be interested in them as an attorney? An attorney who doesn’t listen might also overlook important information about your case.
Does the attorney talk to you about what you may expect? An attorney should be able to clearly communicate information about the proceeding and the likely outcomes.
Does the attorney offer suggestions or guidance? Do they ask the right questions? A knowledgeable attorney will ask questions that get at the heart of your situation and demonstrate a familiarity with the family law court system. They may also give advice on more effectively dealing with your spouse or on presenting your situation to the court.
Is the attorney willing to tell you things you might not want to hear? An attorney must honestly advise his or her client, even when the advice goes against the client’s wishes. For example, if the client wants me to bring a change of custody order, and I know the grounds for the change are weak, my best advice is not to pursue the order.
An attorney needs to be a truth teller, and the attorney should help you get your truth before the judge.
Beware of attorneys who overpromise or make guarantees for a low flat fee. Except in very limited circumstances, no attorney can predict the outcome of a case 100% of the time. We do not control the minds of your ex-spouse, the mediator or the judge. An attorney can make educated guesses, plan an effective strategy for your particular case, and advise you about likely results, but an attorney can never guarantee things will go your way.
A successful divorce experience involves the ability to tailor solutions to the client’s particular problems. Divorce is not a one size fits all proceeding.
For me, divorce and child custody law is not just a business. My practice is about my clients and about doing as good a job for them as possible. By doing my job well, I can have a greater impact on your child’s life than even some grandparents. Divorce law is serious stuff, and any attorney you hire should treat it that way.
If you have questions about this or another domestic relations matter, please contact Zachary W. Williams at 1-312-981-0851 or email: zwwlawyer@gmail.com
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Sunday, May 13, 2012
CAN MY SPOUSE AND I USE THE SAME ATTORNEY?
You and your spouse see eye to eye on just about everything from dividing your property to raising your kids. You don’t want a long, expensive divorce or custody matter. If you already are in agreement, can you use the same attorney?
The answer is yes and no. Any attorney must advocate for his or her client. As such, it is difficult, if not impossible, for an attorney to serve two masters. What if the attorney knows that your spouse is entitled to a better deal? The attorney could not advise your spouse while still acting in your best interest.
That being said, sometimes the parties use the same lawyer, even though that lawyer is representing only one of you. The lawyer can advise the spouse they do represent, draw up the necessary paperwork and appear in court. The non-represented spouse should have their own attorney review any paperwork. After that, however, they can allow the spouse’s attorney to proceed.
Using one attorney works best if the parties have relatively equal power and knowledge in the relationship. If you stayed home with the kids while your spouse ran a business, using the same attorney may not be a good fit. You may not know enough about your marital assets to make an informed decision about the fairness of the proposed agreement.
If you agree on most parenting decisions such as religion and education, and you both see each other as good parents, just not as good spouses, using one attorney can be a cost effective way of ending a relationship amicably.
If you have questions about this or another child custody or domestic relations matter, please contact Zachary W. Williams at 1-312-981-0851 or email zwwlawyer@gmail.com.
The answer is yes and no. Any attorney must advocate for his or her client. As such, it is difficult, if not impossible, for an attorney to serve two masters. What if the attorney knows that your spouse is entitled to a better deal? The attorney could not advise your spouse while still acting in your best interest.
That being said, sometimes the parties use the same lawyer, even though that lawyer is representing only one of you. The lawyer can advise the spouse they do represent, draw up the necessary paperwork and appear in court. The non-represented spouse should have their own attorney review any paperwork. After that, however, they can allow the spouse’s attorney to proceed.
Using one attorney works best if the parties have relatively equal power and knowledge in the relationship. If you stayed home with the kids while your spouse ran a business, using the same attorney may not be a good fit. You may not know enough about your marital assets to make an informed decision about the fairness of the proposed agreement.
If you agree on most parenting decisions such as religion and education, and you both see each other as good parents, just not as good spouses, using one attorney can be a cost effective way of ending a relationship amicably.
If you have questions about this or another child custody or domestic relations matter, please contact Zachary W. Williams at 1-312-981-0851 or email zwwlawyer@gmail.com.
Tuesday, April 24, 2012
HOW I CAN HELP YOU WITH YOUR DIVORCE OR CHILD CUSTODY MATTER
What if you suddenly found yourself living in a foreign country? You don’t know the language, and you haven’t studied the culture. How are you going to survive without knowing anything except your own situation? Everything surrounding you seems alien and, in some cases, counterintuitive.
You need a guide.
As an experienced family law attorney, I can be your guide to the foreign country that is the Cook County Domestic Relations court. Few clients know how to navigate the court system on their own, let alone the best way to communicate about their situation.
To an outsider, some family law may even seem illogical. If your ex-spouse isn’t paying child support, why must you still give them visitation? Or vice versa? Why must you divide a relatively small amount of marital property, when you can’t get a share of that trust fund your spouse inherited? An attorney can help explain the answers to these questions and may be able to find alternative solutions.
While no attorney can guarantee a judge will rule in your favor, I can help you obtain better results by knowledgeably presenting your case in its most favorable light. I can also help you set realistic goals and work with you toward achieving them. Sometimes I may have to tell you something you’d rather not hear. For example, maybe Illinois law doesn’t support your position. Or maybe an issue you think is critical is not relevant to a judge.
Sometimes you will have a fight on your hands. Quite a few divorce attorneys can be overly combative and prolong the battle at the expense of their clients’ financial and emotional well-being. You may be forced to fight back. I can provide the skill necessary to fight so that a judge knows you aren’t the one causing the problem, and that you are just trying to do the best for your kids in a bad situation.
While I can act as your guide, you may still need to do work on yourself and your children. Sometimes that means getting your children professional help. Sometimes that means living on a budget for the first time. With more than 17 years of experience, I have developed a referral network of resources such as mental health professionals, therapists and financial experts. Having worked with so many parents on coping with divorce, I can help you find the solutions to make the changes you need.
If you have questions about this or another domestic relations matter, please contact Zachary W. Williams at 1-312-981-0851 or email to: zwwlawyer@gmail.com
You need a guide.
As an experienced family law attorney, I can be your guide to the foreign country that is the Cook County Domestic Relations court. Few clients know how to navigate the court system on their own, let alone the best way to communicate about their situation.
To an outsider, some family law may even seem illogical. If your ex-spouse isn’t paying child support, why must you still give them visitation? Or vice versa? Why must you divide a relatively small amount of marital property, when you can’t get a share of that trust fund your spouse inherited? An attorney can help explain the answers to these questions and may be able to find alternative solutions.
While no attorney can guarantee a judge will rule in your favor, I can help you obtain better results by knowledgeably presenting your case in its most favorable light. I can also help you set realistic goals and work with you toward achieving them. Sometimes I may have to tell you something you’d rather not hear. For example, maybe Illinois law doesn’t support your position. Or maybe an issue you think is critical is not relevant to a judge.
Sometimes you will have a fight on your hands. Quite a few divorce attorneys can be overly combative and prolong the battle at the expense of their clients’ financial and emotional well-being. You may be forced to fight back. I can provide the skill necessary to fight so that a judge knows you aren’t the one causing the problem, and that you are just trying to do the best for your kids in a bad situation.
While I can act as your guide, you may still need to do work on yourself and your children. Sometimes that means getting your children professional help. Sometimes that means living on a budget for the first time. With more than 17 years of experience, I have developed a referral network of resources such as mental health professionals, therapists and financial experts. Having worked with so many parents on coping with divorce, I can help you find the solutions to make the changes you need.
If you have questions about this or another domestic relations matter, please contact Zachary W. Williams at 1-312-981-0851 or email to: zwwlawyer@gmail.com
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